I have to say, that if you haven't found that special person for you yet, you'll know it when you find someone who just fits with you so well. Someone where you have so much in common- likes, sense of humor, goals, morals etc. You'll rarely fight, it's no longer an uphill battle that it felt like with the other relationships you were in. If that makes any sense. It's like, wow, it can be this easy? Trust, no problem. Security and feeling good about yourself, it's easy. So much different than what *I* was used to anyway!

You know the only thing that makes me sad when I think about our wedding? That we can't do it again! Even now, 3 years later, just the best day. The Best! If you were there, I thank you for coming and being a part of it. Maybe when we hit 25 or 35 or something we'll have another party and invite you plus our new friends. There's just no other day in your life where all of your friends and family, no matter how distant, come to celebrate your life and love with you. Where you all just dance, laugh, eat, talk and have a good time. Man, someone get married so I can have at least one wedding to go to this summer!

Anyway, dear if you're reading this (probably about a week later)- Happy Anniversary and I love you more than anything. Thank you for all that you do for us, letting me stay home with DJ, for our happy home and lives, you are the best man I know- by far.