DJ was with Dave and for some reason whenever I go out at night to either get groceries or just go out with a friend- which is pretty rare- he gets pissed and I come home to an upset baby and daddy!

Last night he kept looking around, so Dave figured it had to be me he wanted. He wouldn't even take his bottle, only an ounce. I am so frustrated!! I am so tired of finally getting a few hours for myself and every time I feel like I pay for it, because he's horrible while I'm gone and it's horrible to come back to the "mess" at home. What can I do?! I'm at my wits end.