I have done so much thinking about DJ's head situation and tried to research it...but there's so little out there.

I'm scared to do it because what if it hurts and it's a bad time for him the next several months. I'm scared not to do it because what if it gets worse? What if there are long-term effects we don't know about? But I'm nervous to try because what if it's not necessary. I'm still scared to NOT try though, what if he grows up feeling self-conscious that one ear is a little more forward than the other?

The bad thing about being a mom is you get no time-out time. You don't get to cry and stay in bed or get pissed and eat lots of chocolate. You don't get to zone out for the day and watch TV and nap. You just don't.